Monday, June 2, 2008

Kharma bites!

When I first got married over 5 years ago, I decided to rebel against my mom (I love you mom!) and not clean for a little bit. Well my wonderful and amazing husband was totally cool with that. See my husband is a neat freak and actually enjoyed cleaning. Infact he pretty much would do Everything around the house. I'm talking the cleaning (even the toilets), the dishes, the dusting, the vacuming. He would even work outside in the yard and mow, and pull weeds and do the whole bit! The only thing my wonderful husband wouldn't do was cook. I thought that was fair. So we ate out a lot! (just kidding-well kinda) Well lately my husband has been having horrible back pain and can't bare to do much of anything anymore. See he was in a car accident almost 6 years ago where he broke his back. Well lately within the last few months his back and been hurting him constantly! He also has been having a lot more seizures than he has in the past. Infact he has had 4 siezures with in the last 3 weeks. (He will usually have 1 or 2 a month) So now here is Kharma coming to get me!! Now I guess it's my turn to do everything. I do all the cleaning and yard work that now has to be done. I know what you are all thinking: It's about time you got off you butt and did something, Or what a horrible wife I have been, or even- I bet that house looks like a mess, right? Well I have been trying to get my act together, And I finally feel like I'm getting the hang of it, but I must admit that their are many days that I don't know how you supermom's and superwomen out there do what you all do! You are all amazing to me and inspire me each and everyday to get off my "bum" and get busy. There is one amazing women who I wanted to thank. (even though she may never read this) That women is Angel. She is so amazing and not just becuase she married and puts up with my cousin rob!! But she has had to deal with a ton of crap lately. She's the one I always think about when life gets a little rough for me. For any of you that know Angel you will agree with me. She is a wonderful, caring, and sensitive person. For those of you who don't know her, she is Charlie Cooper's mom. Charlie was diagnosed with menigitis earlier this year. They have been through stuff that I wouldn't wish upon my worst enemy! And everytime you see Angel she has a smile on her face. That smile that she carries with her has gotten me through many hard times! So Angel and all you other Super-moms out there that make motherhood look easy I say THANK YOU! It's becuase of you that I'm able to get through my trials in life!!! You are amazing!

5 comments:

Adam And Jessica said...
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Adam And Jessica said...

Next time you decide to write a novel, will you please put chapter headings in? j/k. Let us know if you need any help with the kiddos! -Adam

Note to "K DUB": This offer does not include cleaning your house for you. You can not substitute it with any other offer and has no cash value.

The Whitney's said...

Sorry that you have to clean the house that sucks! Let me know if I can help you out! unlike Adam I'll come help clean and Jer can do yard work.

TravandNat said...

I'm up for helping too! I think that you are doing a good job, so don't be so down on yourself! Angel is an inspiration!!

Meghan said...

i won't help you clean, but we can certainly discuss how we don't have things together, together. i keep thinking i am over feeling in control of my life, but really i am not - the status of my house drives me nuts everyday...but i try to remind myself the babies are more important now than the clean bathroom floor...
and you are right - ang is pretty awesome, always has been, but really has handled the crappiest situation with a lot of grace the last 4 months...